Goodbye December Hello January

Goodbye December Hello January Maybe it’s just me becoming a grumpy old man.  Maybe it’s because I always have so many things going on in life – all at the same time.  Sometimes I do not finish all the things I start. Whatever the reason or rationale – I do not make New Year’s Resolutions any more.  I also do not stay up on the last day of December to ‘welcome in the New Year.’  A few years ago, I fell asleep before midnight and guess what?  The New Year came in just fine without me ushering it in with a toast, fireworks, or a kiss.  Although the 7am kiss from my wife, New Year’s morning was both toasty and full of fireworks; …but I digress. What I’m saying is that the changing of the year has not been “a thing” for me.  That is until this year. This year, I was happy to say goodbye ...

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45 ways to honor a departed loved one during the holidays

45 ways to honor a departed loved one during the holidays  The mission of My Roots Foundation is to honor our mothers and fathers.  There are many ways to honor a departed loved one during the holidays.  We want you take the time to reflect on the season and the ones you have lost.  Family is forever. Take the time to process your loses. The grief you feel at the loss of loved ones can be intense at this time of year.  When you love someone, it is only natural that you feel sorrow and grief when they are no longer with us.  While our world may feel like it is anything but normal, those around us are carrying on their lives as if all is still normal. For you, every feels anything but ‘normal.’ So what do you do?  You remember them and you honor them!  ...

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Are you prepared?

Are you prepared for a disaster that could take away your story?   I don’t know how you feel, but this has been a sad year for me.  Mostly brought about by media disaster reporting. I have felt overwhelmed by the steady influx of shootings, fires, wars, political insults and mudslinging, protests, and anti-protests. This year we’ve seen gas leak explosions and chemical plant accidents in and near residential communities.  Recent months have seen historic droughts contributing to wild fires in California. There have been tornadoes in the mid-west. Hurricanes, floods, thunderstorms, lightning strikes, volcano eruptions, and earthquakes have captured our attention.   The one thing that touches my heart most is seeing the TV interviews of people who survived these various disas ...

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Earth Day

It’s Earth Day, and that means this is a great time to think about how you can reduce your impact on the planet – after you’re gone.  That’s right, one day you will be somebodies ancestor and you may want to think about the footprint you leave behind.   Worldwide, more than 56,000,000 people pass away each year. Traditional burial and cremation practices can have significant negative environmental impact, while approximately 1,500,000 million tons of reinforced concrete is buried in the U.S. each year in the construction of burial vaults. So, of Cremation or Burial which is the greener option? Let’s face it, most people don’t base the decision on whether to get cremated or buried on environmental concerns; but in honor of Earth Day I thought it might be worth broaching the topic. Ther ...

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Passover and Easter: great times for family story telling

This last Sunday was Palm Sunday in the Christian tradition and all over the world some Christians lit candles and attended special worship services associated with Easter’s Holy Week, while Jews began their physical and spiritual preparations for Passover — making the matzah (flat, unleavened bread), shopping for bitter herbs and celebratory wine.   Like Jews in the celebration of Passover, Christians vary in their observance of various Easter-related customs. While most Christian denominations celebrate Easter Sunday as a way of honoring Jesus’ victory over death and sin, they don’t all celebrate the other elements of Holy Week.   In some Christian churches, for example, Palm Sunday services acknowledge Christ’s triumphal entry into Jerusalem by carrying ...

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